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Old 06-21-2008, 10:15 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Are we in the right place?

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Originally Posted by shags View Post
We're completely inexperienced, but want to watch and be watched with another couple--nothing else beyond that. Looking at SLS and here, we seem to be in a distinct minority.

Are there better venues for finding like-minded couples who are on the vanilla side of soft swap? We're definitely in the voyeuristic/exhibitionistic camp, but here and SLS tend to lean much more to the wild side, and I fear we'll never find an outlet for making this fantasy real.

Suggestions?

You probably are more in the minority but you aren't alone. I don't know of any site that really leans towards just soft-swap of that sort. Anytime you have a more narrow set of boundaries are interests you are going to have to work a little harder to find other couples, but it can happen. Just be honest about what you are looking for and take some time. And as BiloxiCouple said any on-premise club would be a good place to start as you can always go and just play with each other. That is how we started as well for the first few months we went we only played with each other.
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