[SweetandSalty1]

Hi! We just wanted to introduce ourselves. We are a young married couple and have been together for 7 years. Just recently we have really started talking about getting into swinging. We aren't quite ready yet. We want to make sure that we feel totally comfortable and want to set a lot of ground rules to make sure it goes as smooth as possible. Plus we have a few pounds to lose and want to get into the best shape possible before going into something like this. We are thinking that in a year or so we will try it. I am just curious for beginners what is the best way to get into the lifestyle? We were thinking of maybe going to a club/party when we feel ready and just taking everything in and seeing what we feel comfortable with and what we don't.

From what I have heard swinging can really enhance a marriage and can be a great way to explore desires and get to experience things together. I have also heard that problems (jealousy etc) usually occur because a marriage is not solid so we are making sure that we have a very strong and secure marriage before doing anything like this. We are totally in love with eachother and very attracted to eachother. Our sex life is great. I love my husband with all my heart and I know he feels the same way. Neither of us needs to have sex with other people, we just feel like it might be a good way to be able to live out our fantasies and experience other people. My husband is the only person I have ever had sex with and I have definitely wondered what it would be like to be with another guy. Plus I am very bi-curious and really want to experience being with a girl. My husband would also like to be able to be open sexually and experience new people and situations. We realize that it would be just sex and that we would have to separate sex and love and realize that although we would have multiple sex partners we would only have one emotional partner.

I know swinging isn't for everyone. How can we truly decide if we are ready and if this would be a good idea for us? We have tons of questions like does everyone that swing have awesome bodies? We are both attractive but I have had two kids and am very embarrassed about my stretch marks and my husband and I have always been modest with nudity. Overall we are both very interested and excited to do this we just want to make sure it is the right decision for us. I would love some advice, experience stories etc from experienced swingers. I'd love to hear how it has helped your relationship and if there have been any bumps in the road?!

Thanks and I am so glad I found this board!!!


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