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twobears · 06-20-2008, 06:03 PM

Hi I hope you will write more in detail of the experience so all of us on the board can try to point you toward a more comfortable space over this experience. We are still newbies as it goes with only 3 or 4 years and limited experience up here in Alaska with our age it is not very offen we play. I can tell you the first experience we had with a 3 som with another female, which is what we both wanted to experience,even with all the talking there was wronge impressions given to us by the other party. Yes I cried and I was mad at the other female, we speak that is all now WE did not want this "one" time bad experience to take hold of us as a couple and turn us into something we both did not like. Yes realize "we only need each other" is a good feeling and will always be you as a couple, swinging burns out all of the deep personel feeling of our nature that needs to be placed in proper balance,that is up to you two to complete. Look and put these feeling in the right place and go on with new experiences in the lifestyle. Read about all of the people on here that want to help you with the personel pain, if you are willing to "openly" face what you feel and talk about it. Your personel out look on life will free you and husbie to be what the creator wants, enjoy your life being the sexual persons you each are. The wonderful thing about the lifestyle is the trust and knowing your mate loves you and you him or her.This will give you both more pleasure with each other as well as the richer life is can give a couple, more than you can realize now in this pain. I hope you will talk to us more in detail and we all can share our growing experiences with you. I hope you will hold on to the love for each other and let go of the pain and enjoy life. Swinging will not do what you feel it will do to your marriage or anyone's I am so thankful I let myself grow and put the old fears away become the woman and couple that is free to be ourselves loving life and every moment with us and other in this life. I hope you will one day reach that goal also. Good Luck and please write again.

06-20-2008, 06:03 PM	#68 (permalink)
twobears Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 107 Location: Wasilla Alaska Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:runningtwobears	Re: IF MARRIED~DON'T SWING...IT CAN BE HORRIBLE & RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE Hi I hope you will write more in detail of the experience so all of us on the board can try to point you toward a more comfortable space over this experience. We are still newbies as it goes with only 3 or 4 years and limited experience up here in Alaska with our age it is not very offen we play. I can tell you the first experience we had with a 3 som with another female, which is what we both wanted to experience,even with all the talking there was wronge impressions given to us by the other party. Yes I cried and I was mad at the other female, we speak that is all now WE did not want this "one" time bad experience to take hold of us as a couple and turn us into something we both did not like. Yes realize "we only need each other" is a good feeling and will always be you as a couple, swinging burns out all of the deep personel feeling of our nature that needs to be placed in proper balance,that is up to you two to complete. Look and put these feeling in the right place and go on with new experiences in the lifestyle. Read about all of the people on here that want to help you with the personel pain, if you are willing to "openly" face what you feel and talk about it. Your personel out look on life will free you and husbie to be what the creator wants, enjoy your life being the sexual persons you each are. The wonderful thing about the lifestyle is the trust and knowing your mate loves you and you him or her.This will give you both more pleasure with each other as well as the richer life is can give a couple, more than you can realize now in this pain. I hope you will talk to us more in detail and we all can share our growing experiences with you. I hope you will hold on to the love for each other and let go of the pain and enjoy life. Swinging will not do what you feel it will do to your marriage or anyone's I am so thankful I let myself grow and put the old fears away become the woman and couple that is free to be ourselves loving life and every moment with us and other in this life. I hope you will one day reach that goal also. Good Luck and please write again.
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