Maybe I missed something here.
You talked to her 3 times. She is much older. She is attractive and you have never had a personal conversation with her.
You want to have a sexual relationship with her.
It sounds to me like if you sent her flowers she would laugh.
I'm not trying to be sardonic but you have nothing to base sending her flowers on.
If you want any chance in the world you would need to establish contact with her. YOu would need to actually go out of your way and risk rejection by approaching her and saying "hey I just got to know you a little but am very attracted to you and just wondered if you found me at all interesting".
I know a lot of 40 plus good looking medical professionals and they are usually intellectual and very use to young guys wanting sexual relationships. FLowers would kind of be lame in my humble opinion.
Most of them like older guys anyhow. They are usually enticed and stimulated by conversation that at least is on a par with there own experiences but like men with experiences that supersede their own. Usually if they are single they are very picky also. They have depth. They generally are conversative and won't let their hair down unless someone really blows their skirt up. Lets face it they have patients, doctors, administrators, friends, and socialites that come on to them all the time.
I have found that infactuation usually leads to frustration.
My advice would be to go find a smaller fish in a bigger pond.
But if you send her flowers and get somewhere let us know cuz I'd be totally amazed.
John.
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