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dancers · 06-17-2008, 11:35 AM

Hi again, and thanks for the kind words.

We will keep in touch, but for the moment it's hard for us to see her with someone else. Of course - like Vjklander wrote - it's all about happiness and we're very happy for her. But at the same time - very sad that we lost this aspect on relationship with her, and (even more) because we could not give her what she needed.
So for now - the happiness is tainted, but we hope it will pass.
The funny thing is how differently we express our grief. Ms Dancers is mostly OK, but then she cries a little holding me tight, and I.. I'm just constantly sad (what takes it's toll on her I suppose). I need to put on my best face for her, but boy - it's hard.

06-17-2008, 11:35 AM	#6 (permalink)
dancers Registered Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 7 Location: Poland	Re: Sweet & sour taste of loss. Hi again, and thanks for the kind words. We will keep in touch, but for the moment it's hard for us to see her with someone else. Of course - like Vjklander wrote - it's all about happiness and we're very happy for her. But at the same time - very sad that we lost this aspect on relationship with her, and (even more) because we could not give her what she needed. So for now - the happiness is tainted, but we hope it will pass. The funny thing is how differently we express our grief. Ms Dancers is mostly OK, but then she cries a little holding me tight, and I.. I'm just constantly sad (what takes it's toll on her I suppose). I need to put on my best face for her, but boy - it's hard.