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Sakaysi · 04-19-2003, 05:38 PM

DOn't know if this is the right forum....
I'm 27...single...graduated from med school in july 2002...
I was working at a hospital a few months back with a female doctor who I find extremely attractive......She's divorced (or separated)...waaay older than i am..(probably has kids older than i am) ..To most people she comes across as very cold and impersonal, but I chalk it up to her just going thru some rough times...
We've probably had like 3 conversations...I've been the one to initiate all 3...
The first time we exchanged words was one morning I saw her with her hair up in some high heels and a very sexy outfit....I told her ..Dr..so and so...I luv the outfit....She smiled nervously (i think) and said thanks...
OTher time we spoke I asked her how did she deal with the discrimination against female surgeons when she just started....she went on to tell some things she went thru...
After those talks we've only exchanged hi's and byes...
Last time we spoke she told me she would be going on leave to visit her daughter overseas..she mentioned (out of context i thought) that her daugters' father had remarried.....

I want to let her know that I find her very attractive and would luv to explore the possibilty of having an a sexual relationship with her (if she's into that of course)....
My problem is this however....I'm no longer working at the hospital she's at.....Its hard as hell for me to leave work and go to see her during the day and if i do get the chance..chances are she'll be surrounded by others when i get to see her...

Thing is while i was at her hospital all the senior doctors numbers and addresses were in a folder for us junior doctors to call if we had a problem while on call....

So...what should i do??....Go back get the number from the folder, call her??....if so what should i say....i don't want to seem like a young stalker....should i go to the hospital and wait no matter how long till i can get her alone and tell her whats on my mind?
Should I forget it and stick to ladies my own age...(she's in her late 40's early to mid 50s)

04-19-2003, 05:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
Sakaysi Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 19 Location: Kingston, Jamaica Status: Single Male	Older Woman Advice DOn't know if this is the right forum.... I'm 27...single...graduated from med school in july 2002... I was working at a hospital a few months back with a female doctor who I find extremely attractive......She's divorced (or separated)...waaay older than i am..(probably has kids older than i am) ..To most people she comes across as very cold and impersonal, but I chalk it up to her just going thru some rough times... We've probably had like 3 conversations...I've been the one to initiate all 3... The first time we exchanged words was one morning I saw her with her hair up in some high heels and a very sexy outfit....I told her ..Dr..so and so...I luv the outfit....She smiled nervously (i think) and said thanks... OTher time we spoke I asked her how did she deal with the discrimination against female surgeons when she just started....she went on to tell some things she went thru... After those talks we've only exchanged hi's and byes... Last time we spoke she told me she would be going on leave to visit her daughter overseas..she mentioned (out of context i thought) that her daugters' father had remarried..... I want to let her know that I find her very attractive and would luv to explore the possibilty of having an a sexual relationship with her (if she's into that of course).... My problem is this however....I'm no longer working at the hospital she's at.....Its hard as hell for me to leave work and go to see her during the day and if i do get the chance..chances are she'll be surrounded by others when i get to see her... Thing is while i was at her hospital all the senior doctors numbers and addresses were in a folder for us junior doctors to call if we had a problem while on call.... So...what should i do??....Go back get the number from the folder, call her??....if so what should i say....i don't want to seem like a young stalker....should i go to the hospital and wait no matter how long till i can get her alone and tell her whats on my mind? Should I forget it and stick to ladies my own age...(she's in her late 40's early to mid 50s)