[dancers]

Hi folks.

Like the comment of this forum says - polyamory and swinging are two different things, but boy - they sometimes DO overlap.

We have been lurkers on SwingersBoard for a few years now, and never really needed advice. Nor do we need now - but we want to share a story with you - maybe you will learn from our mistakes. ( Or maybe there were none - we're not sure now... ).

We're a steady couple, recently married after 7 years since our first meeting. We 'click' together - have various common interests, and have a fantastic sex life.
3 years ago we meet a girl that we were drawn to. She is tiny, very nice and we liked her a lot.
To make the story short our trio had lots of sex in the beautiful city of Prague. The time there was a constant turn-on for all three of us in the following years.

When we got back home we were seeing each other often (we live 7-10 minutes from our newfound lover) - and there was fair amount of a 'bedroom acrobatics'.
Apart from great sex - we felt good together. Life was grand.

Then - at our wedding - she found her 'significant other'. He's a really great guy, with a great sense of humor, who was as struck by her as she was by him.
They are a couple now - glowing from happiness.

We are happy for her, but at the same time we feel tremendous loss.
We should have been prepared for this - sooner or later it had to happen. We - as a couple have hidden our relationship with her. No kisses on the streets no flowers, no dinners with parents. Our environment, families, workplaces couldn't take it, right ?

The funny part is - talking with my wife after all this we admitted that each of us thought about living with her - in a steady, three-people-in-a-house sexy and loving relationship. We were to scared to admit it even to each other.

Now it's too late - and we cannot stop thinking we lost someone really important.

And I cannot stop thinking I'm more a coward than I admit to.

So - people - don't waste your chances.