I can honestly say that we stepped into this from day one together. Sorry if I am repeating myself.
We were on vacation together in the mountains, and attended a little nightclub one night while we were there. A very attractive women started flirting pretty strongly with me, we didn't do anything that night , but it opened a whole new can of worms in our life. We talked about what happened the entire 13 hour trip back home the next day, and began to tell each other our wildest fantasies. We started out looking for another bi-fem, which wasn't happening, then moved on to couples and eventually full swap.
We are not as active in the lifestyle as we would like to be, basically because we have small children and don't get the chance often enough. But are longing for the day when we will have more freedom to play.
Roxy