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The folks from the club just said things were a little different at their club . Here's the question are these kind of events common? Will we have to deal with these things a lot? And if it does happen how should I respond?
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I don't understand if it was the owners or hosts that told you that things are a little different here ? I would have had to ask more at that point. I think LikeMinds gave a clear idea about how your wife could have been more forward with her response. Women can be caught off guard and have to realize their control and actual power upon unwanted advancements. Its obvious that the man got the point. He new he was not welcome and by that, I would say you both acted accordingly. You did the right thing.
For the most part no, this isn't common. But we have to realize some people try to make advancements. Having a stern voice and showing a lack of appreciation is best when dealing with someone intoxicated. But we have had one guy that was sober do the same. After Mrs.fun put her hand up, I spoke up and said Thats Enough !! He apologized and said he was just so overwhelmed he couldn't help himself. Look, I let it go. We are in this for fun and good times as well. So no need to take things farther than needed. Most men who catch on that not only my wife isn't interested, then see that I am there for back up, get in line pretty quick. Mrs.fun learned her power and control like I say from basically the same experience you had. It took some understanding after the initial shock but reflexes are improved as we venture out.
We hope you can see that this is not common, but should be dealt with positively. We have no problem reporting unwanted advancements. Most people in any club would be at your side anytime things get out of hand. Never feel passive to others, its not necessary. Enjoy or leave is our motto.