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pervgeeks · 06-10-2008, 05:20 PM

We have been in the lifestyle for a year now together (I, the female half had some MFF threesomes a few years back before was with my husband). Anyway, as we are moving within the lifestyle, we're trying to find a balance. While we like the fact that at house parties, people actually play and there's not the teasing, loud music, and there to look cute people there, we're newish to that scene and still like a little time to chat first. i.e. "What are you into? What are you preferences?" We're not into the random free for concept either. We're the ones who close the door when we play with others. We do have one club around here and it seems every time we tentatively "plan" to go, Aunt Flo arrives either early or late. We'll get there though one of these days lol.

I'm just wondering for more experienced folks, what's your preference? Clubs, house parties, meet & greets, meeting couples/singles individually (which we rarely do anymore unless we already have met)?

06-10-2008, 05:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
pervgeeks Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 149 Location: Connecticut Status: Couple SLS Name:pervgeeks	House parties vs. meet & greets? We have been in the lifestyle for a year now together (I, the female half had some MFF threesomes a few years back before was with my husband). Anyway, as we are moving within the lifestyle, we're trying to find a balance. While we like the fact that at house parties, people actually play and there's not the teasing, loud music, and there to look cute people there, we're newish to that scene and still like a little time to chat first. i.e. "What are you into? What are you preferences?" We're not into the random free for concept either. We're the ones who close the door when we play with others. We do have one club around here and it seems every time we tentatively "plan" to go, Aunt Flo arrives either early or late. We'll get there though one of these days lol. I'm just wondering for more experienced folks, what's your preference? Clubs, house parties, meet & greets, meeting couples/singles individually (which we rarely do anymore unless we already have met)?