 Re: Right way to deal with someone just grabbing my wife?
Since this was your first club experience I'm sure shock first set in and paralyzed the Mrs. when the guy grabbed your wife. Don't be hard on yourselves for not doing something immediately to let him know he was way out of line. Now that you've experienced this you'll be on the look out for these type of occurences and you'll be better able to handle them in the future.
Grabbers can surprise us at any time. I like to handle these situations myself, and MrLM knows that. I think you'll both find that if Mrs cupl4fun lets guys know where she stands with a guy's advice you'll never have to step into the situation to resuce her. I also think men are too likely to think it's your problem, and that your wife may have been okay with the grab, had you not stepped in. Some grabbers can think it's the husbands "problem" as in a jealousy issue, when it's not that at all. For this reason I like to let men know when I'm not pleased with something they've done. They get the message instantly. Also, you won't always be right there to assist your wife, all the more reason that she take charge and take care of these situations herself. She'll feel more empowered and you'll know she can handle herself.
LM |