Re: d,d free My Mrs recently made a similar statement concerning "disease". The way I approached this problem was to state the following, that we would go at her pace, just go to a club and explore our comfortability with absolutely no pressure on her to do anything let alone anyone. I followed that up with the statement that most swingers are committed couples that have been together for quite some time and that the threat of contracting STD's is much greater among singles that have no history with each other than couples that have a history with each other and by extension the same would apply to a "play" couple. |