Re: How likely are you to approach? I usually spend the first 30-40min watching and observing, sort of figuring out who I want to talk to. After that I will go around and talk to people, sometimes a little shyly, until I find ones i click with. Once i click, I have no problem letting them know clearly that I'd like to play. Once I get past the initial contact, I go for it. If I am taking the time to go out to a club/party/event, I generally plan on having sex. I figure you create your own experience. |