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***JustAskJulie*** · 06-09-2008, 11:23 PM

I really don't understand their reply " things are a little different" at their club.

Lee is right, she should have said no, but he should not have just grabbed and groped either. This will happen when people are drunk and you just kind of have to learn to deal with it (unfortunately) and most importantly learn to say no.

When this happens to me, I just back away and push them off (walk away if possible). That's a pretty good no, often I combine that with a very sarcastic "um, no thanks" as I'm moving/backing away.

I would have asked the club owners what they meant by their comment. Because if things are just allowed to go on without anyone saying anything to someone like that... then I'd be hesitant to return.

06-09-2008, 11:23 PM	#3 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,307 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: Right way to deal with someone just grabbing my wife? I really don't understand their reply " things are a little different" at their club. Lee is right, she should have said no, but he should not have just grabbed and groped either. This will happen when people are drunk and you just kind of have to learn to deal with it (unfortunately) and most importantly learn to say no. When this happens to me, I just back away and push them off (walk away if possible). That's a pretty good no, often I combine that with a very sarcastic "um, no thanks" as I'm moving/backing away. I would have asked the club owners what they meant by their comment. Because if things are just allowed to go on without anyone saying anything to someone like that... then I'd be hesitant to return.