[VegasLee]

No was the first thing that should have been said quickly but you are new to that scene and is understandable.

You did the right thing about telling the club manager about it. They did wrong by not doing anything about it right then.

There is no excuse for that. That happens at our club and the guy is shown the door within seconds.

Personally we would not go back to a club that handles like they did.

As far as what you should do. First thing, tell the guy no and ask him to leave you alone. Don't ever get physical with someone in a club and best to not cause a scene either. Get security or a manager and tell them right when it happens. Don't wait until you are leaving later in the night or a hour later. Help the good clubs help you by taking care of matters right away.

Most good clubs do not allow those type of actions. You have to remember that at any club, they see many people each week and it is hard to judge everyone that walks in the door. Things to happen at times but they can only be handled if you let the right people know about it.

As soon as that club said "were a little different at their club" we would have been out of there. There is no excuse for allowing people to step over lines like that.

Don't ever get to the point you want to "hurt the dude". That will also get you tossed out of a club and rightfully so. Let the people that run the place do their job and if they don't, leave and don't go back.

Over all, you did right, they did wrong. Don't go there.

I would also go to the club section of this web site and write a review of that club, what happened and how they did not handle it.