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Originally Posted by Clandestine  I think my biggest stumbling block is the fact that I'm single...or swingle as I call it 
A lot of people truly believe that you can't swing if you're single.
To a certain extent I agree. The term swinging basically brings to mind the old keys in a bowl scenario and that's what couples do.
But, if I'm playing with a couple, 2 couples....or whatever situation, I'm swinging.
If I'm playing one on one...I'm not but I'm still a swinger.
So basically being accepted is my biggest stumbling block.
There are others of course but most of them I've overcome. For instance: Fear of rejection, confidence issues. |
I am in agreeance with you. I have recently become single after leaving a long term relationship, and a lot of things have crept into my mind about this. I do have a couple that I play with and have spoken in depth with them about this very topic, I am lucky all is very good with them regardless if I am in a relationship or not.