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lookingfornow · 06-09-2008, 07:53 AM

The question suggest the following relationship...that sex gets better because of age. I would have to say no (from a male perspective)because of all of the physical changes that tend to inhibit performance, particularly in males. Of course, modern pharmaceuticals help somewhat. But, they are no replacement for what nature has taken away.

I do think that, for some people, sex can get better in spite of age. We certainly work harder at being sexual today in an effort to generate the intensity that once occurred naturally. That effort results in more complete and often fulfilling sexual experiences (either with one another or with others) than we had when we were younger.

I agree that it would be nice to take what we know today and apply it using the bodies (and souls) that were given to us years ago. However, there are very many couples out there that are not applying effort to their sexual relations and, as a result, are not enjoying as robust a sexual relationship as they once did. I think that proves that aging does not inherently improve sex.

06-09-2008, 07:53 AM	#4 (permalink)
lookingfornow Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 191 Location: N.E.Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:lookingfornow	Re: Does sex get better with age? The question suggest the following relationship...that sex gets better because of age. I would have to say no (from a male perspective)because of all of the physical changes that tend to inhibit performance, particularly in males. Of course, modern pharmaceuticals help somewhat. But, they are no replacement for what nature has taken away. I do think that, for some people, sex can get better in spite of age. We certainly work harder at being sexual today in an effort to generate the intensity that once occurred naturally. That effort results in more complete and often fulfilling sexual experiences (either with one another or with others) than we had when we were younger. I agree that it would be nice to take what we know today and apply it using the bodies (and souls) that were given to us years ago. However, there are very many couples out there that are not applying effort to their sexual relations and, as a result, are not enjoying as robust a sexual relationship as they once did. I think that proves that aging does not inherently improve sex.