Welcome To the Swingers Board
If your talking about anything in a relationship, your probably in a good relationship !
Its when you have nothing to talk about things seem dull.
Sure, we talk about std's, but not so much that it ruins the idea. We have talked about many things that could or could not happen. STD's do happen so far so good for us.
Its just like we have a couple that we are interested in now. We feel as safe as we need to with them, to move forward. We understand the risks. We feel the risks are very low/ minimal with them. Low enough to talk about the possibilities of having a good time. Actually... a great time.
Keep talking, if STD's are in the conversation have a look into how you feel. Cover the things or issues as needed. Now is the time.
As for us, we don't look at pictures of the train wreck before we board the train.. Ya know