Cindy --
We use condoms while playing with others, so other men won't be coming inside my wife. But I might be able to shed some light on the mindset of us husbands.
To explain it simply, we're very proud of the sexuality our wives/girlfriends have. Some want to covet that for themselves, but others like myself want to share it with people we feel comfortable enough with to do so. I suppose you could assume there is a particular fetish involved with a man getting so excited watching his woman with others, but then again, that door swings both ways. My wife is particularly excited to have sex with me following a group session. One foursome last year on a Saturday night resulted in the two of us having sex three times ( each to completion) the following day. THAT was one Sunday that wasn't a day of rest, let me tell you.
You have shared the most important person in your life with another person, and if you both feel 100% secure in your relationship, there's no worry about possible consequences. Guilt-free sex together with others, and you get to re-live it with each other whenever you wish.
Dan
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