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SnowwwWhite · 06-05-2008, 01:12 PM

I definitely respect everyone's points and agree that not every single female out there would interfere with a couple's relationship. But I guess my point is that if an average single female (or male for that matter) met a married or attached swinger at a party and felt "that spark," what would stop them from pursuing it and disregarding the couple's partnership?

I'll bet that some singles are honorable and would be respectful of the relationship and gracefully bow out, but how many others would disrespect it and go after what they wanted? Maybe this should be a whole new thread, don't mean to hijack..... but I guess exposing my man to random single women is a concern for me and I'm just playing it out in my mind. I just think other couples have more to lose and my comfort level will be higher playing with them.

06-05-2008, 01:12 PM	#21 (permalink)
SnowwwWhite Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 101 Location: Home Status: Female	Re: Is the lifestyle even a viable place to seek single fems? I definitely respect everyone's points and agree that not every single female out there would interfere with a couple's relationship. But I guess my point is that if an average single female (or male for that matter) met a married or attached swinger at a party and felt "that spark," what would stop them from pursuing it and disregarding the couple's partnership? I'll bet that some singles are honorable and would be respectful of the relationship and gracefully bow out, but how many others would disrespect it and go after what they wanted? Maybe this should be a whole new thread, don't mean to hijack..... but I guess exposing my man to random single women is a concern for me and I'm just playing it out in my mind. I just think other couples have more to lose and my comfort level will be higher playing with them.