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OCGuy4Play · 06-01-2008, 01:14 PM

Just a few random thoughts about having a close friend as a sexual playmate. The first time my wife (now ex-wife) and I ever did anything unusual sexually was with my best buddy from work. He and I discussed the possibility long before he met my wife. Thinking it would make her feel more comfortable, we spent a long time letting the two of them to get to know each other. Then while she and I were engaged in great sex, I brought up the suggestion of having him join us sometime for a threesome. Because by now she knew him so well, I found that she was very receptive to the idea. Before actually trying the threesome, the three of sex discussed it to see what boundaries if any would be observed. As it turned out, there were none. Although it sounds like all this took some major planning, it was actually just a simple process to insure that all parties were comfortable. We never made any specific plans as to when or where we were going to do this, but it was understood that we all had the "green light." As it happened, we all got caught in a unexpected thunderstorm while wearing only light clothing and arrived at our place completely soaked and freezing cold. It was my wife who suggested a communal hot shower and hot drinks by the fireplace. What followed was the most intense and pleasurable sexual experience of our 36 year marriage.

After that first time, we played with other women and couples we did not know very well, but it was that first time mfm with my buddy that was still the best.

The point I am trying to make is that because we all took our time to insure that we were all comfortable with each other and get to know everybody's desires, it just seemed so much more natural and thrilling when things finally did happen.

06-01-2008, 01:14 PM	#12 (permalink)
OCGuy4Play Registered Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 3 Location: Irvine, CA Status: Single male	Re: MFM with a really good friend? Just a few random thoughts about having a close friend as a sexual playmate. The first time my wife (now ex-wife) and I ever did anything unusual sexually was with my best buddy from work. He and I discussed the possibility long before he met my wife. Thinking it would make her feel more comfortable, we spent a long time letting the two of them to get to know each other. Then while she and I were engaged in great sex, I brought up the suggestion of having him join us sometime for a threesome. Because by now she knew him so well, I found that she was very receptive to the idea. Before actually trying the threesome, the three of sex discussed it to see what boundaries if any would be observed. As it turned out, there were none. Although it sounds like all this took some major planning, it was actually just a simple process to insure that all parties were comfortable. We never made any specific plans as to when or where we were going to do this, but it was understood that we all had the "green light." As it happened, we all got caught in a unexpected thunderstorm while wearing only light clothing and arrived at our place completely soaked and freezing cold. It was my wife who suggested a communal hot shower and hot drinks by the fireplace. What followed was the most intense and pleasurable sexual experience of our 36 year marriage. After that first time, we played with other women and couples we did not know very well, but it was that first time mfm with my buddy that was still the best. The point I am trying to make is that because we all took our time to insure that we were all comfortable with each other and get to know everybody's desires, it just seemed so much more natural and thrilling when things finally did happen.