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joaninla · 05-30-2008, 08:28 PM

Our first couple of MFM's were with friends (two different friends). One was actually a prior lover of mine. This put me so much more at ease at a time when I was fairly nervous to begin with. I knew the men, I knew they liked me and my body and, they had respect for me and my husband and our marriage. It was my husband who asked them if they were up for it (no pun intended), and discussed with them our expectations. I understand that friends do not work for all couples, and if there are any romantic feelings I too would say to shy away from friends. However, if everyone can be comfortable with 'recreational sex' (which for us is what an MFM is all about), for us a friend was a far better choice than a stranger for those initial encounters.

05-30-2008, 08:28 PM	#6 (permalink)
joaninla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 131 Location: Los Angeles Status: couple	Re: MFM with a really good friend? Our first couple of MFM's were with friends (two different friends). One was actually a prior lover of mine. This put me so much more at ease at a time when I was fairly nervous to begin with. I knew the men, I knew they liked me and my body and, they had respect for me and my husband and our marriage. It was my husband who asked them if they were up for it (no pun intended), and discussed with them our expectations. I understand that friends do not work for all couples, and if there are any romantic feelings I too would say to shy away from friends. However, if everyone can be comfortable with 'recreational sex' (which for us is what an MFM is all about), for us a friend was a far better choice than a stranger for those initial encounters.