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Old 05-30-2008, 06:47 AM   #24 (permalink)
cront
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Join Date: May 2008
Posts: 33
Location: india
Status: single male
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Default Re: What my wife wants...

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Originally Posted by rpu3 View Post

...............................The first thing I think is why is it automatically assumed that the woman is not telling the truth? Man, that's annoying to think every woman is supposed to be assumed to be playing a word game. Yes, far too many women play this stupid little game of "let me say it, but I hope you get that I really mean the opposite." I get angry with myself if I try (very rarely) to pull this one people in my life - instead I'm just pretty blunt about things. People are not mind readers. If you can't rely on what people say, then what's the point? Say what you mean and mean what you say and end the ridiculous game playing.

I am in an open marriage and if I've told my spouse I am fine with his choices, he is assured it's the truth. I certainly have told him when I'm not fine with his choices. I also don't expect him to read my mind, and I don't insult him by sending coded messages that don't say what needs to be said. I don't expect him to figure out what I'm really saying.
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Then you are one of those exceptional woman a man always will want to have. But women like you are rare , trust me, I respect and will really like to have friends like you but women like you are rare. I have met only one such woman in college and she became my best friend for life. Now to give you a little surprise, I proposed her friend but she refused because I did not have a bike and much money to take her to McDonalds, so she refused the offer and that is the story of my 1st love but then I never talked to her again and she was crying when after 3 years, at the end of our graduation, I did not even meet her. I am very happy from that day and in the end women like you are rare , sorry I could not resist
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