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lakeluvrs · 05-29-2008, 10:29 AM

The first time was fine for us. I could tell the Mrs. was totally owning the other guy. (My wife has muscle control that can reduce grown men to tears.) So I was really enjoying watching him try to last longer than 30 seconds. It was extremely arousing to see her doing that to him. My wife had a little bit of jealousy because the girl was very petite and pretty and was one of those that looked even better naked than partially clothed. But that jealousy went away quickly and it was a great night.

The problem for me was a year or so into our swinging career when we were with a couple we'd played with once before and in the middle of it my wife quit her moaning long enough to scream that she was coming. That's when the jealousy siren went off in my head. I can only make her come from intercourse with no other help about once every 50 times, and here was this dude doing it on his second attempt. And it wasn't just any old come, this was a walls-falling-down orgasm. When the initial shock wore off, I realized the jealousy part of the brain must be wired to the arousal part, because while I was worrying about the fact that this guy had just given her better sex than I ever had, I was also thinking "I hope we can meet these people next weekend so he can do it again!"

Now I hope to have that jealousy/arousal every time. It's one of the greatest highs I've ever had.

05-29-2008, 10:29 AM	#18 (permalink)
lakeluvrs Active Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 23 Location: Lansing, Michigan Status: Couple SLS Name:2lakeluvrs	Re: Emotions - the first time you saw your partner with someone else? The first time was fine for us. I could tell the Mrs. was totally owning the other guy. (My wife has muscle control that can reduce grown men to tears.) So I was really enjoying watching him try to last longer than 30 seconds. It was extremely arousing to see her doing that to him. My wife had a little bit of jealousy because the girl was very petite and pretty and was one of those that looked even better naked than partially clothed. But that jealousy went away quickly and it was a great night. The problem for me was a year or so into our swinging career when we were with a couple we'd played with once before and in the middle of it my wife quit her moaning long enough to scream that she was coming. That's when the jealousy siren went off in my head. I can only make her come from intercourse with no other help about once every 50 times, and here was this dude doing it on his second attempt. And it wasn't just any old come, this was a walls-falling-down orgasm. When the initial shock wore off, I realized the jealousy part of the brain must be wired to the arousal part, because while I was worrying about the fact that this guy had just given her better sex than I ever had, I was also thinking "I hope we can meet these people next weekend so he can do it again!" Now I hope to have that jealousy/arousal every time. It's one of the greatest highs I've ever had.