Re: Ok, I'm that dreaded one... Let's be real here. Sex is great, but it is not required for life. Sex is fun, but it is not the only form of fun available to a human. Sex is the ultimate physical/intimate contact, but holding hands, kissing, back rubs, and hugging are also acceptable forms of romantic contact. Wasn't it that great sage of the 1860's (Mick Jagger) who said:"You can't always get what you want, but you do always get what you need." If you love your SO you stand by them and take what they can and will give, be it good or bad. I may sound like a hard ass on this one, but as someone "in" the lifestyle, I also understand that sex is a recreational activity no different from golf. (putter, balls, hole, get it LOL) |