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Originally Posted by fun4Ds  I guess 1+1+1= 3 sounds better than 2+2-1=3
I would be concerned with how that -1 guy felt. |
I, too, think her husband is a primary element in the equation.
You expressed how ideal this woman is for you two, but I'm not sure you've even mentioned to her what you have in mind. I get the feeling you haven't.
Considering having sex with someone (swinging without poly) is lightweight compared to what you are hoping for. There are many more steps to take and things to consider here. It could turn out that this is the start to something beautiful and enriching.
First though, this woman would need to know what you have in mind. Presenting it to her will be a major consideration in her life because it will change everything she presently knows. She has a husband, maybe children. Will she consider divorce? Are you hoping she will leave her husband and join you? Lots to think about.
Before you get your hopes too high, talk with her about your vision and see if she is open to the new life you have in mind. You won't know what your next steps together will be unless you do.
LM