I guess 1+1+1= 3 sounds better than 2+2-1=3
I would be concerned with how that -1 guy felt.
Do you know him as being sane and everything ?
Is he just generally o.k. with the future situation ?
At this time does he even know he is about to be the -1 guy ?
I have to be honest, its one major thing we concern ourselves with in our FMF situations. We have learned to appreciate our female friends independence.
Well, someone had to ask