[serenandsol]

Thanks for the input. That's definitely an issue for both of us....and we're supportive of whatever she decides in that respect. We definitely don't want to break up a marriage and wouldn't have ever considered this except for the fact that she started a lot of sexy talk with Seren. Tonight at our dinner with her, it became pretty evident to both of us that she was flirting heavily.

That is a great response and very pragmatic. We've already decided to take things very, very slow because of the circumstances. But once we get to the point of being able to ask, that's a great way to do it. Thanks.