[good times]

I can make only two observations about this.

First, while I know several folks that have the "dark room" fantasy, I have never met anyone who would willingly participate in one.

And second, you said "A VERY BIG part of the "swinging" life-style, DOES involve some "bi-activity" by both male and females....otherwise you cannot "really" be "swinging" at all." While it may look this way from your perspective, I can tell you for much of the swinging population this is not true at all. In our case, neither one of us being bi, our swinging involves no bi activity at all. Frankly, while I have met and know several men who swing that are bi, they still amount to less than 1% of the swinging population that I know personally. So I seriously doubt that any activity that involves bi males will be seen at any clubs in the near future. As a matter of fact, my guess is, if a club host planned this type of an ice breaker it would be the death of that club, no matter how much the idea may appeal to a few.

As an example, one of our local clubs recently had an orgy theme night. Even though orgies are much more accepted than this would be, most of the regulars at this club stayed away that night. while I didn't go, I understand that the orgy night was a total bust for the club, so I doubt we will see another one of those.