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imsherona2 · 05-26-2008, 01:02 AM

This is a good thread and one I ran into a few years ago with my now ex...I have a dear friend who is very active in the lifestyle and he, on occasion, would bring me newsletters and such to take home and talk to my husband about becoming "active" in the community....well each and every time he threw the newsletter across the room, said to me "if you think that is something you want to do, go ahead and go, but count me out, I am not going to stand by and watch someone else "f--k my wife". My response was always the same, "I am not going to go without you".

So, I can tell you from my experience, if it's NO, it's NO...and nothing I could have done or said would have changed his mind. Fortunately for me, he is now my ex...and I have been with my SO for a few years and WE do enjoy the lifestyle!

You can't force someone to do something they really don't want to do and I would think you wouldn't want to anyway!!

05-26-2008, 01:02 AM	#30 (permalink)
imsherona2 Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 80 Location: Grants Pass Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:imsherona	Re: A Threesome, how to get the wife interested This is a good thread and one I ran into a few years ago with my now ex...I have a dear friend who is very active in the lifestyle and he, on occasion, would bring me newsletters and such to take home and talk to my husband about becoming "active" in the community....well each and every time he threw the newsletter across the room, said to me "if you think that is something you want to do, go ahead and go, but count me out, I am not going to stand by and watch someone else "f--k my wife". My response was always the same, "I am not going to go without you". So, I can tell you from my experience, if it's NO, it's NO...and nothing I could have done or said would have changed his mind. Fortunately for me, he is now my ex...and I have been with my SO for a few years and WE do enjoy the lifestyle! You can't force someone to do something they really don't want to do and I would think you wouldn't want to anyway!!
	Last edited by imsherona2; 05-26-2008 at 01:05 AM. Reason: Sorry, didn't realize things had progressed since the original post! Hope things work out for the two (three) of you!