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**ncmd_couple** · 05-25-2008, 11:02 AM

Iapr,

Looking at your question for your perspective, I will give answering your questions a shot.

Honestly, you can meet single women anywhere. And any of them are potential playmates. And how you meet them is just like anywhere else. Be nice, open, friendly, and take some time to get to know them. Use your “swinger senses” and pay attention to her flirtyness, body language, and what she says. I often use my hot tub to judge the openness of someone we meet in the vanilla world. “We are going to go home in a while and get naked in the hot tub.” Or something like that. You know, the dance.

Risks, well, they are the same as they are throughout the vanilla world for swinging. But as with all things, with great risk comes great rewards.

The two bi-fems that we have met and played with, both were not through swingers channels. The key to both is paying close attention to the lady, what she says, and what she does and to be patient.

Good luck!

S

05-25-2008, 11:02 AM	#9 (permalink)
ncmd_couple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 860 Location: Maryland Status: Couple SLS Name:ncmd_couple	Re: Is the lifestyle even a viable place to seek single fems? Iapr, Looking at your question for your perspective, I will give answering your questions a shot. Honestly, you can meet single women anywhere. And any of them are potential playmates. And how you meet them is just like anywhere else. Be nice, open, friendly, and take some time to get to know them. Use your “swinger senses” and pay attention to her flirtyness, body language, and what she says. I often use my hot tub to judge the openness of someone we meet in the vanilla world. “We are going to go home in a while and get naked in the hot tub.” Or something like that. You know, the dance. Risks, well, they are the same as they are throughout the vanilla world for swinging. But as with all things, with great risk comes great rewards. The two bi-fems that we have met and played with, both were not through swingers channels. The key to both is paying close attention to the lady, what she says, and what she does and to be patient. Good luck! S __________________ Try anything once, twice if it is fun, three times if it is real good!