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michelle101 · 05-23-2008, 10:56 AM

I have gotten cold sores on my lips since I was 6 years old. I get them when I am stressed, when I have a fever or when i have some trauma to my lips I.E. got hit with something, got a fat lip.
I have been with my husband for 22 years now. Of course I don't give him oral or kiss him at the time of an outbreak, but after living together so long, If it was so easy to spread to others, you would think he would have it by now. In the lifestyle i have found that most people don't care if you get cold sores as long as you don't play with an outbreak. but at first I was a little scared that others reactions might be to never play with us, but most are understanding. When you tell someone you have the Herpes viris, they look at you badly until you tell them it is cold sores, then they say Oh thats ok I thought you meant genital. I try to be as safe as possible for everyones sake. If they find out and don't want to play with me, oh well, but that has NEVER happened.

05-23-2008, 10:56 AM	#36 (permalink)
michelle101 Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 97 Location: massachusetts Status: married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:michelle101	Re: That pesky cold sore I have gotten cold sores on my lips since I was 6 years old. I get them when I am stressed, when I have a fever or when i have some trauma to my lips I.E. got hit with something, got a fat lip. I have been with my husband for 22 years now. Of course I don't give him oral or kiss him at the time of an outbreak, but after living together so long, If it was so easy to spread to others, you would think he would have it by now. In the lifestyle i have found that most people don't care if you get cold sores as long as you don't play with an outbreak. but at first I was a little scared that others reactions might be to never play with us, but most are understanding. When you tell someone you have the Herpes viris, they look at you badly until you tell them it is cold sores, then they say Oh thats ok I thought you meant genital. I try to be as safe as possible for everyones sake. If they find out and don't want to play with me, oh well, but that has NEVER happened.