 Re: Please safe my sanity :)
Lots of simple answers to a very complex issue, that in the world of psychology is dangerous. Having only one source of counseling is sometimes dangerous also. Information, lots of it, will send both of you on a path that can truly go many directions. To become peaceful within your marrage will need a balance of truths at many levels. One of the most difficult emotions to come to grips with is jealously-trust after it is broken. Time, talk, consistant actions over long periods, the brain repairs one molecule at a time. Swinging is not for shaky-doubting lovers, it is like running an icy log over a raging river. Slip back to your marriage's first couple of squares to retool your emotions. My comments do not do justice to your situation, I apologize.
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