Re: Please safe my sanity :) Gotta disagree here; my wife and I owe our marriage to counseling. My wife betrayed my trust and I went to counseling for 3 yrs. Before counseling I couldn't let go of the betrayal and a lot of it was my own personal insecurities. my counselor helped me get to a place where I felt safe and secure so I could love my wife unconditionally. Plus she actually encouraged us to start exploring our sexuality. But I beg you don't force yourself to just do it. If somethings bothering don't ever just make yourself that's abuse. |