[two42lovers]

A lot of you really love the party & club scene - and it has us scratching our heads, because we've never had much luck meeting new-to-us couples at parties. On the other hand, we've been very successful meeting couples online.

We approach online contacts similar to cplnuswing - emailing & chatting (with new-to-us people) is for setting up face to face meetings in the near future. If someone has trouble meeting, we aren't going to keep emailing or answering chat requests. If they can't find free time to meet right away, we ask them to contact us when they do have time. Where we draw the line depends on the situation, the person, and our mood at the time. The more we absolutely know they are real and really play, the more slack we are likely to give them. Sketchy profiles without glowing certs don't get a second thought.

Hard to say how many couples we've met - maybe 50? - but we've never had a couple set up a meeting and not show. Maybe because we always talk on the phone before we meet? - esp the two women. The more unsure we are about someone, the more we will only meet them at a time and place convient to us. (Like at a bar 5 min from us, where we like to go on Friday nights anyway, regardless if we are meeting someone or not.)