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Old 04-15-2003, 10:05 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Default Re: Question on Attraction/looks

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Originally posted by Natasha75
I am fully confident in saying that I am an attractive young woman.
In that case, I'd say, "Don't even worry." Let your confidence in yourself carry you through.

Example: who stands out more? The unashamedly bald guy, or the guy with the bad comb-over? The one draws attention to his perceived shortfall by his efforts to hide it, and so ends up making himself feel even worse.

Point out someone who is genuinely 100% flawless. Every time you see perfection in a magazine, or on t.v., or in a cinema, remember just how much trickery went into producing that illusion.

Hold on to that self-confidence.
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