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myhw4u · 05-17-2008, 11:14 PM

We had a similar experience with the first couple we ever met and it could be part of our hesitation about playing with a couple. We had met them through a mutual friend, chatted, and B (my wife) even met her out as a test to see how they got along. B didn't feel a sexual draw to her but really enjoyed their chats, phone conversations and first meet. The entire time we talked with the couple they told us that they are looking for friends above all else so even if we don't click to play it is ok.

The time came to meet and we met them out and had a good time talking, exchanging stories, etc. But we weren't sexually attracted to them. When the evening ended we went home and I msged them thanking them for the good time and we hope to talk with them again. They asked if we were comfortable enough to play and I explained that while we enjoyed getting out and meeting them etc that we were not sexually attracted to them. After a barrage of questions as to why, they proceeded to accuse us of leading them on and wasting their time. They asked us to remove them from our list and not msg or call again. Which we did, happily.

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myhw4u Active Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 20 Location: Baton Rouge, LA Status: Couple-She rights but he does the typing SLS Name:myhw4u Blog Entries: 1	Re: Not Interested Sexually, only Friends!! We had a similar experience with the first couple we ever met and it could be part of our hesitation about playing with a couple. We had met them through a mutual friend, chatted, and B (my wife) even met her out as a test to see how they got along. B didn't feel a sexual draw to her but really enjoyed their chats, phone conversations and first meet. The entire time we talked with the couple they told us that they are looking for friends above all else so even if we don't click to play it is ok. The time came to meet and we met them out and had a good time talking, exchanging stories, etc. But we weren't sexually attracted to them. When the evening ended we went home and I msged them thanking them for the good time and we hope to talk with them again. They asked if we were comfortable enough to play and I explained that while we enjoyed getting out and meeting them etc that we were not sexually attracted to them. After a barrage of questions as to why, they proceeded to accuse us of leading them on and wasting their time. They asked us to remove them from our list and not msg or call again. Which we did, happily.