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First experiences? Geese, did it start back in 1987 when I had an MFM with my ex-wife? Was it when my new bride and I enjoyed an MFF a couple of years ago? Or was it the MFM we had last year? Yeah, that is when we started actually.

I think everyone gets here any number of different ways. Some discover that swing exists and then pursues it, others like us, start out with open minds and open experiences and find our way to swinging. Personally, I don’t think there is a right or wrong way, just so long as you are happy and enjoying life!

When we really stepped into the lifestyle we started with a MFM. He was an ex-lover of hers, one she had been seeing before she met me. This made it an outstanding afternoon because it was her choice, she was comfortable with him, and he is a great guy that I had met before. Describing that afternoon would take hours, but needless to say, she was pleased in all ways!

Then a few weeks late we went to our first on-premise swing club. She was nervous, so I was I, but not as much as she was. The club owners were fantastic people and they and the host couple made us feel comfortable immediately. We went there not really knowing what the reality was going to be, but we went with low expectations for anything sexual actually happening.

As the night progressed we became more comfortable. Took advantage of the hot tub and playing together in some of the rooms just to get relaxed into things. Again, the owner and his wife made us feel like we had been there for years. “L” getting sexy in her outfit, some dancing, some socializing, and we were soon very comfortable.

We were approached by the host couple later, but honestly, I was not attracted to her, and neither was “L.” We told them that we were newbies and we were just getting comfortable with being there right now. They didn’t seem to be too happy with that, and later I learned that they are headboard notchers, and what those kind of folks are about. They won’t give us the time of day now. Oh well!

Later we were approached by another couple. We accepted their invitation. The lady and I had a good time, unfortunately “L” didn’t have as good a time. Actually, he sucked in bed. Too bad, but it is as important to me that “L” be pleased as it is for me to please the other lady.

Going to the clubs is a lot of fun and we have tried several in our area, and like going back to two of them. We have met a lot of really nice folks, some that we consider to be friends. As we learn and become more comfortable it only gets better for both of us!