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Originally Posted by curious_jorge  I know that swinging is not the perverted sexual free-for-all like some try to make it seem like and yes that is an effed up stereotype. However, when swingers discriminate against single men by assuming that he's in it just for to bang some guy's wife or any of the other preconceived notions, isn't that the same thing? |
Why do you single guys always use "discriminate" like it's a bad word or something? We couples discriminate all the time, and so do you.
Just this morning, I did a little shopping. I "discriminated" against some bananas that were overly-ripe, some blueberries that were over-priced, and some onion-rolls, because neither of us likes onion-rolls.
Is that "discrimination," or smart shopping?
I also bought some spaghetti, but ONLY because I was able to purchase some spaghetti sauce as well. I don't like spaghetti without the sauce, and she doesn't like the sauce without the spaghetti. If they hadn't had any sauce, I would have had no need for the spaghetti, and therefore, wouldn't have bought it.
Is THAT "discrimination," or simply making sure they have ALL the ingredients I need to make a COMPLETE dinner before I place anything in my cart?
A single male is, to us, like a grocer that sells only spaghetti. No sauce, no garlic bread, no salad, no wine.
Just spaghetti. You could be selling the best damn spaghetti the world has ever seen, but you still wouldn't have many people coming to your market, because "average" spaghetti WITH sauce is better than world-class spaghetti withOUT sauce.
Now, when you come along and say to us, "I'm not here just to bang a guys wife" you have me REALLY confused, because I don't know why a single guy would join a swingers website EXCEPT to bang other guys wives.
Are you looking for a Bridge partner? Somebody to trade baseball cards or carpool to work with? A person who will play online checkers with you? If so, there are numerous other, better websites which will lead you to those people.
This is a swingers website.
We come here to bang other guys wives.
What ARE you looking for, and who will be bringing "the sauce?"