 Re: No single males? Why not??
Never quite understood the "bad apples ruin it for everyone" mentality...
How does bad behavior out of one particular guy control your opinion about a different guy? (or solo women, or couples...) It's stereotypical thinking and illogical. Feel free to do as you choose, but the blame game has us scratching our heads.
If you decide (for whatever reason) to not play with solo guys, or couples, or not play at all, it is your choice. Each of us are responsible for our own choices and outcomes, a "bad apple" cannot control us. If you decide not to play with solo guys, you have "ruined" it for yourself.
If you don't want to play with solo guys, and you don't, how can it be characterized as bad apples have ruined it for you? Sounds more like an excuse to not do what you don't want to do anyway... If you do want to play with solo guys, and you don't, for whatever reason you decide, the only one "ruining it" for you is you.
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