The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Discrimination against single males

Bama0468 · 05-16-2008, 10:10 AM

The fact is, Just as there are singles that give the rest a bad rap, there are couples that will do the same. Not trying to scare you off or anything but facts is facts.

So for those of us that do not use singles it is because we have been burned more than not and gave up and made a solid decsion to not allow them, just as some new swingers have hooked up with the wrong couple and been scared out of swinging for good.

It is this group of folks that gives the rest a bad name. Is it right? no. Can it be over come? sure! with time and patience. My wife and I have been burned by single guys, so singles are off the menu so to speak, however I have recently told a single guy on here that if we were looking for one and lived closer and all were attracted we would concider him. Why? Simply because he has consitently showed through his posts and views that he would be respectful and not try for anything more than what we three would have agreed to before hand.

It is places like this where we can openly discuss things (Couple and Single alike) and be able to see that there are singles that can be respectful and honest, where folks can see what should be the golden rules of the lifestyle.

05-16-2008, 10:10 AM	#3 (permalink)
Bama0468 Rebel without a Cause :P Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 438 Location: Colorado Status: Ugly half of a beautiful Wife SLS Name:fountaincouple Blog Entries: 4	Re: No single males? Why not?? The fact is, Just as there are singles that give the rest a bad rap, there are couples that will do the same. Not trying to scare you off or anything but facts is facts. So for those of us that do not use singles it is because we have been burned more than not and gave up and made a solid decsion to not allow them, just as some new swingers have hooked up with the wrong couple and been scared out of swinging for good. It is this group of folks that gives the rest a bad name. Is it right? no. Can it be over come? sure! with time and patience. My wife and I have been burned by single guys, so singles are off the menu so to speak, however I have recently told a single guy on here that if we were looking for one and lived closer and all were attracted we would concider him. Why? Simply because he has consitently showed through his posts and views that he would be respectful and not try for anything more than what we three would have agreed to before hand. It is places like this where we can openly discuss things (Couple and Single alike) and be able to see that there *are* singles that can be respectful and honest, where folks can see what *should* be the golden rules of the lifestyle. __________________ I don't speak or write proper english however, I do use fluent American Ease to its foremost!