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Originally Posted by JustMrJ  Funny, I USED to do all the vacuuming too, but I've finally gotten her to do it from time to time.
Can you briefly tell us your first swinging experience with a couple. Party? Club? etc. (Dirty details not really needed if you don't want to, I'm just interested in the setting and dynamics) |
In my defense, I do all the other cleaning, laundry, and most of the cooking.
As to our first experience . . . We'd been invited to a meet & greet by some good friends (we knew they were swingers and they knew we were interested in trying it). We agreed to share a hotel room, with no intentions of playing with each other. It was a toga-themed party, but as we got the invite at the last minute, we didn't have costumes. We walked in, legs shaking, and were relieved to see only about half the people were dressed up. Our friends introduced us to a couple people, but the music was so loud, we weren't able to really carry on a decent conversation. That, and we had NO clue what to do. So, like the total newbies we were, we just stood/sat there, waiting for someone to come talk to us. I did get on the dance floor a time or two, but no one seemed interested in joining me/us.
We ended up going with our friends to another room for what we no know to be an "after-party". We sat around and talked with the two other couples, though Chris and I were only mildly interested in one of the couples. Once two of the girls started playing, our friends and I decided to leave.
We sat up and talked for awhile, but ended up crawling into bed with our own spouses to sleep. In the wee hours of the morning, Chris woke me up in a very nice way. I tried my best to be quiet, but it was a lost cause.
We'd woken our friends up. I apologized, but Mr. Friend said he didn't mind, for us to continue. So Chris went back to what he was doing, but I was having trouble relaxing. Mr. Friend again assured us that he didn't mind hearing us, but if he may be tempted to join us . . .
He did, and that was my/our first MFM. Followed shortly by Chris joining Mr. and Mrs. Friend for the same. Then we moved on to full swap. I'll never forget Chris telling Mr. Friend, "Yeah, when she starts to pull away like that, you pretty much have to grab her hips and pull her back to you." He said it in the same way a golf pro might give you advice on your golf swing!
Not only was it a great experience, but we're still close friends.
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