What a great question Natasha. My opinion is that women obsess over too many perceived flaws concerning their bodies.
I have given birth to three children and have had several surgeries that have left scars. I can honestly say that my little stretch marks here and there and scars were never a hinderance in my non swinging life nor are they now. Neither my stretch marks or scars were ever a factor, my sensuality however was.
Be yourself and feel good about your body, the rest will fall in place naturally.
Lori