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Originally Posted by sexychoclit  I saw the episode of "Oprah" and found that it didn't show the real side of lifestyle couples. There was only one woman who I found attractive and I do believe that she was a preacher. I think that the episode made swingers look like a bunch of desperate people who can't get laid any other way. I don't even think they had any single females on there (can't remember that part anyway). |
OUCH...but then again there is only so much you can find if you only look skin deep. Swinging is about sharing as much as it is about sex and it's hard for singles (uncommited) to understand that part of it. As for why their were no single on the show to most of the world single females or single males having sex is not new, interesting or note worthy.
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Originally Posted by sexychoclit Also, what happens to the children (under 18) of people who come out to their community? I would think that they suffer in some kind of way. Kids can be cruel and so the children should be protected. If I were a parent I don't think that I would be so quick to reveal what goes on behind my closed doors. |
As for the kids we have 3 and the older ones were in high school when we did the show, we talked about it with them before we did the show and they saw no problem with us doing it. Our daughter said "It's day time TV none of my friends watch that" and our son wanted to know if he could come along and raise money for the band. Before the show kids friends allways hung out at our house (mostly because we kept the frig stocked and were busy working, not to mention the cable tv, wireless internet and cool partent). After the show this did not change. Our 19 year old daughter just graduated college, 21 year old son is still working on the college thing and the 13 year old is in middle school where as with all middle schoolers he know everything (but we know this will pass when he finaly gets to college) All the kids do well in school and are bigest problems with them were always getting them to make there beds and keep their rooms clean. Maybe honesty is a good thing after all. We never told the big kids "Don't have sex, we always said be safe, and remember sex is not love, School, College, Job, Marrage then babys...
Guess I should never of looked in on this post. But then again I still think my wife is the most beautifull woman on the planet and she seem that I am not the only man that wants her. We swing because we enjoy new experences not because we can get laid any other way.