They have to make this show in a way that will get good ratings. Their market is not us swingers, it is the general population that have it set in their mind who and what we are.
Anything done for entertainment purposes is not going to be close to reality. Even reality shows are not real.
They edit them and add things into them so that more people would be interested in watching them.
No one wants to watch anything about real life. Real life is not that entertaining for most people.