The Swingers Board - View Single Post - If so many couples swing with single males, why aren't they allowed in clubs?

absingleman · 05-10-2008, 10:02 PM

I have a slightly different take on this subject. I don't like the idea of clubs anymore. Since moving back to the midwest twelve years ago, I have NEVER had a good time at a club when I went on my own. I have had several fun encounters with couples I met online after telling them where I hang out after work, and one couple got me into a group where I've actually declined to attend their monthly parties more than I've accepted invitation THEY sent me. But I became FRIENDS with them first. The sex came much later.

Don't worry about clubs if you are a single man. Either date until you find a woman that wants to swing with you and go as a couple, or concentrate on meeting couples and getting into parties and meet and greets. It costs less money and you have a better chance of meeting friends, not just having sex with someone that is probably going to forget your name by the next morning. Its much easier to swing if you have friends in the lifestyle, even if you never swing with those friends. Swing friends don't let single male friends get blue balls :LOL:

05-10-2008, 10:02 PM	#10 (permalink)
absingleman Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 50 Location: Michigan Status: Single Male SLS Name:ABSingleMan	Re: If so many couples swing with single males, why aren't they allowed in clubs? I have a slightly different take on this subject. I don't like the idea of clubs anymore. Since moving back to the midwest twelve years ago, I have NEVER had a good time at a club when I went on my own. I have had several fun encounters with couples I met online after telling them where I hang out after work, and one couple got me into a group where I've actually declined to attend their monthly parties more than I've accepted invitation THEY sent me. But I became FRIENDS with them first. The sex came much later. Don't worry about clubs if you are a single man. Either date until you find a woman that wants to swing with you and go as a couple, or concentrate on meeting couples and getting into parties and meet and greets. It costs less money and you have a better chance of meeting friends, not just having sex with someone that is probably going to forget your name by the next morning. Its much easier to swing if you have friends in the lifestyle, even if you never swing with those friends. Swing friends don't let single male friends get blue balls :LOL: