Re: Frustrated but Understanding While dynamar and screaminggood are probably being sincere in their assertion that there are single fems that play with SMs the part they are probably missing is that of shear numbers.
There are very few active SFs in the lifestyle and of the ones there are they probably aren't really playing with large volumes of SMs. Each of them probably have a few favorites that they hook up with now and then and they probably are not out there screwing a new guy every night.
Same with couples, there are a percentage of couples that have a favorite or two that they play with and that is probably about it. when you throw in the volume of single guys that are out there trying to score a piece there just isn't enough to go around.
Yes there are some SMs out there that are getting some sack time now and then but for each guy that scores there are probably hundreds that are sitting at their computers getting nowhere.
I agree with numbskulls In that places that market to SMs about hot single gals and horny housewives wanting to screw SMs is marketing trying to get a buck. Any woman can screw any guy if she wants. she doesn't have to go to any club to get it.
I also agree with good times in that the guys that do attend LS clubs regularly realize that they will score very rarely and they realize that their odds are better at vanilla bars but they go to LS clubs because they like the atmosphere there better. They are not there because of all the sex they are getting.
I do think it is pertinent to let single guys know when they come onto a forum asking why they aren't getting laid by a different hot chick every night that it is not realistic for the them to think that all these hot single gals and horny housewives are going to drop their drawers for them. |