The Swingers Board - View Single Post - If so many couples swing with single males, why aren't they allowed in clubs?

gnb4u · 05-10-2008, 01:56 PM

I have not seen the polls you are refering to but in my experience the overwhelming majority do not want anything to do with single males at all.

As for clubs and lifestyle venues not allowing SMs that is an issue of "Pay Me Now and I'LL Pay the Price Later." If a club allows unregulated and uncontrolled access to single males they more bring in more $ initially but in a short time as the word gets out eventually there will be more and more SMs showing up thinking that it is full of sluts and easy chicks and soon the couples and single gals will stop coming and the club will have to either turn into an actual titty bar/strip club or shut it's doors.

The clubs that have been in business the longest and have the best reputations among couples and single fems either do not allow SMs at all or have some form of reasonable control on who gets in and where they can go and what they can do and what kind of numbers of SMs that can be in the club at any given time are.

If there gets to be too many SMs (based on the number of couples and SFs at any given time) or if a SM starts to cause problems then couples and SFs stop coming.

05-10-2008, 01:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
gnb4u Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 53 Location: iowa Status: couple SLS Name:gnb4u	Re: If so many couples swing with single males, why aren't they allowed in clubs? I have not seen the polls you are refering to but in my experience the overwhelming majority do not want anything to do with single males at all. As for clubs and lifestyle venues not allowing SMs that is an issue of "Pay Me Now and I'LL Pay the Price Later." If a club allows unregulated and uncontrolled access to single males they more bring in more $ initially but in a short time as the word gets out eventually there will be more and more SMs showing up thinking that it is full of sluts and easy chicks and soon the couples and single gals will stop coming and the club will have to either turn into an actual titty bar/strip club or shut it's doors. The clubs that have been in business the longest and have the best reputations among couples and single fems either do not allow SMs at all or have some form of reasonable control on who gets in and where they can go and what they can do and what kind of numbers of SMs that can be in the club at any given time are. If there gets to be too many SMs (based on the number of couples and SFs at any given time) or if a SM starts to cause problems then couples and SFs stop coming.