Numbskulls, thanks for your kinder and gentler reply. Now... was that so hard?
In response to your question... the single fems I am acquainted with all live within a couple hours drive of Louisville, Ky., are in the age range of 25-55, all reasonably attractive & intelligent, and gainfully employed. Some are bi, some are straight. Some play with couples, some do not.
None of them regularly attend swing clubs, preferring to make initial connections with people either online or via networking and Meet & Greets.
All my original reply was meant to relay was that there are plenty of ways to accomplish the same goal... and please be more careful and objective when advising a newbie. That is all.