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I have to say, while everyone makes some good points, as a general observation NumbskullsX2 post reflects our observations exactly.

We have three on-premise clubs in Reno, all of them admit single males to their parties, except for one club that has one couples only party per week, in addition to their parties on other nights when single males are allowed. The vast majority of the single males that come to the clubs never hook up with anyone, ever. The ones that do amount to less than 5% of the single males that go to the clubs. So while it is true that it is possible for single males to successfully hook up with couples, it isn't automatic, and it takes a lot of patience. Even at that, the majority of single males that we know that attend the local clubs never hook up with anyone. I have even asked a couple of them who are nice guys but never hook up with anyone, why they come to the club every week when they never get to play. They say they like the club atmosphere and maybe someday they will get lucky.